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Guides

Every human being has a single Main Guide and several auxiliary guides. Before you were born, you and your main guide have gone over the lessons you want to learn in this life (from here on I will refer to the guide as "him", regardless of male or female personalities). He is at your side throughout this life, offering help and protection whenever he can.

When you die, the two of you will meet again to see what you have learned, what you may possibly be allowed to learn in a future life, or what you have been unable or unwilling to learn so far for some reason. Your guides' love towards you is unconditional, and they will never judge you for any reason.

Your main guide is someone with whom you have shared a previous life, and with whom you enjoyed a profound and deep connection at the time. He is an ancient soul who will not reincarnate again. Your guide is always there for you. All you need to do is address him, and he will be there. He provides advice, which is for you to accept or to disregard.

Auxiliary guides are relatives, friends, or acquaintances who have passed away. They stay by your side during certain periods of your life to assist you and to teach you things. Sometimes, however, you are the one to teach them, as the process of learning continues "beyond". Here as well, there love is unconditional and there is no judging.

Contacting your Guide(s) is a very pleasant experience, and anyone can learn how to do it. It takes some practice, but it will surely be worth it! You should consider contact with your Guide(s) as a close friendship very much like those we know here on Earth. As a consequence, you should treat them as friends, for they will treat you as one in return. They will never address you as "Sir" or "Madame", or use similar language. They will use your way of speaking to keep communication smooth. Most of them have a great sense of humour as well!

The difference between Earthly friendship and the friendship between you and your Main Guide lies in the fact that your Main Guide knows you inside and out, enabling him to come up with quite striking advice, originating from love and from the perspective of the greater whole of which you are part.

Contacting your Guide

There are many ways to contact your Main Guide, one of which I would like to explain here. First of all, find yourself a quiet spot; a place where you will not be interrupted by telephone, radio, TV, etc. Any distraction may be disruptive.

Take a few deep breaths until you feel you are relaxed. Mentally visualise your own body and surround yourself with white light. Visualise yourself standing at the top of a flight of stairs. The stairs consist of ten steps leading down. At the end of the last step, you see a closed door. When you open that door later on, you will meet your Guide behind it.

You are standing at the top of the stairs, slowly starting to descend the steps, counting back from 10,9,8,7, and so on as you go, until you arrive at the door. Now, you open the door, and there you will find your Guide. It is completely up to you to decide the setting in which you meet him or her in your visualisation. Some people are fond of beaches, while others may prefer to visualise a field or a forest. Let your imagination run wild; the point is that you create a place in your mind where you feel at ease.

You have opened the door and you see your Guide standing before you. It's perfectly OK if you don't see a face; a human figure or a vague shape will do for the first few encounters, the rest will follow later on.

Calmly walk towards him or her, and sit, stand, or lie down before him or her – whatever you prefer. You may now start talking to your Guide, but you could also wait and see what your Guide will say to you. Communication will occur by means of thoughts, so thoughts will start to surface in your mind.

Initially, communicating with your Guide may be confusing as you will wonder "are these my thoughts or those of my Guide?" This is perfectly normal, and only by practicing regularly will you start to notice that thoughts occasionally surface of which you know that they didn't come from you.

However, practice makes perfect, and the more you establish contact, the easier things will become as you go. You will notice at some point that you don't need the stairs and the door for making contact any longer.

Don't be disappointed if you don't succeed on your first attempt. After all: you didn't learn how to ride a bike or how to roller-skate in one go.